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Anonymous: Favorite artist?

it  depends but Beyonce, Jennifer Lopez and Zendaya are constant.. altho currently Im listening to Theophilus London and Jamie XX nonstop because of my bf influences.

Anonymous: That other message was too long so a summery I'm a girl and was dating another girl my parents wouldn't agree so I asked my friend to be my fake boyfriend turns out I was with the girl just to experiment and I fell for my guy friend. I went to Italy a few months back and got him a speedo (he's a swimmer) we don't talk now at all and it kills me I really like him and he knows about the present I got him. I want to give it to him but I wanna make it cute since I really like him. Any tips? :)

Hey! Im so so sorry for taking ages to answer this but I was traveling and could only post through my phone … so well I read the other 4 parts and honestly after the whole idk man and the fact that he either deleted your  number or he never saved it in the first place .. to be honest I wouldnt even spend my time on this guy cause he doesnt seems interested at all.. and no amount of italians speedos you get him will change that ( and if that does, then trust me he isnt the kind of guy that you wanna have around).. I honestly think its better if you let it go .. Im sorry if this is not what you wanted to hear :(

Anonymous: Do you have any healthy recipes? Like to share?

oh sure! Id like to share and if you have some, then let me know. Well I drink my green smoothie every morning for breakfast, it has green apple, a pear, celery,cucumber,roman lettuce (I can’t find Kale here :’( boo ) spearmint, lemon. Theres this vegestable thing that I love which is I chop carrots, broccoli and white onions and cook them in the wok and then sprinkle parmessan cheese and mix ir and its delicious, honestly I could eat that everyday and not get tired of it. I dont like to spend too much time on the chicken so it its fast and yummy then its something I’ll do.I also like to make this broccoli, lemon and permessan soup and its pretty yummy. Ok , a confession here is I put parmessan to everything and anything haha. Theres this mango mint smoothie that is also to die for.. if you have some fast and easy ones, please let me know, and yeah, I do make some killer  egg white omelettes :)

Anonymous: cool blog you have here! Love your name!

:D thank you very much!

Anonymous: You should read the book, Blink by Malcom Gladwell to get some perspective. The gist of the book is that your gut feeling or first impression in many instances are right! I don't see why all these people are giving you shitty advise that you should not date this person just because he fell head over heels in love with you and his gut told him that you could be the person for him. Make sure you don't kiss so many frogs that you don't even know when you passed on a prince! Ignore whoring advise!

Thank you for the book recommendation! I’ll definitely get it and check it out, however I’ll tell a bit more about him cause I honestly don’t believe its love in such a short amount of time. He was married for 5 years cause he married young and his wife what the typical dependent, lacked of confidence and such and well I think that he saw the opposite in me but honestly that’s not love, maybe its admiration. He said he is leaving to Spain in September 1st so he told me several times on how I had until then to decide and go with him. I hate people pressuring me.
Please take in account I had 2 major surgeries over the past year, still recovering from both, I have my own plans as well, just got the coolest job ever (which yeah I can work from anywhere I want,whenever I want ), if things go right I’ll be interning this summer in NY and networking, starting to become more health aware and just focusing on me after so many months of hard recovery process and me being sad and basically unable to go out the house. Its not like I’ve been wasting time on kissing frogs, quite the contrary, so if I’m going to commit to someone the very least I need to feel is comfortable and with this guy regardless of his looks and his way of treating me, I didn’t felt comfortable, I felt pressured.

Still, thanks for the advice dear!

Anonymous: My god! Are you still seeing this guy?

God, no! haha I’m just pissed though cause I lent him my favorite book..which I just had to re order from Amazon cause there’s no way I’m seeing him ever again. Its funny, guys start liking me because I’m not clingy and I’m independent and have my own life.. but then end up hating me because of the same thing. WTF

Anonymous: He asked you to marry him on the first date?!?!?! Oh my goodness!! How old is this guy? Sweetie I would just cut him off, he seems so clingy

I know!! and he is 32 but trust me he looks like 25. But ugh I got so annoyed cause we saw each other practically everyday and I just need my space and  he still insisted so so much throughout the day to come see me and he smooth talks about him knowing what he wants and blah blah blah thing is I also know what I want, it just doesn’t involves 2 kids and a house and it wont for a long long time.

vezzulla: He asked you to marry him after one day? That's a little extreme... It's completely normal that you don't want to compromise so quickly!

I know right? Plus I havent had a serious relationship ever in my life so thats way way to fast. I have so many goals and plans I need to accomplish and this guy since he is way older he knows exactly what to say to sell himself and I’m way too nice and kind to straight out tell him to get lost but at first it was nice cause he is extremely good looking and smart but now it doesn’t feels nice anymore, I feel sick every time I think about him cause I hate being pressured. I was feeling bad cause I though I got too comfortable in being alone for more than 2 almost 3 years but truth is I love it.

Anonymous: I'm in love with someone although we never actually dated. It was more of an admiration type of thing. I admire the way he is, he has a heart of goal and I've been in love with him ever since I was a teenager. We're friends but I never felt like I was good enough for him. He looks like a Greek god and I'm pretty average. He got a new girlfriend that looks like a vs model and they always post pictures it breaks my heart and when I see them together I feel like my heart rips into pieces. Advice?

Unfortunately theres not much you can do about it now that he is in a relationship and seemeinly happy in it. Its harder than it sounds but distance yourself for a while and “do you”, try to meet new people and put yourself outthere a bit more. Maybe in the future, who knows but seing those pictures of him and his VS looking girlfriend is only hurting you.

Anonymous: I'm Colombian as well and I feel like what most women worry about is marrying a rich guy, looking fabulous having "the perfect marriage", starting their families and being the "perfect wife" I'm 23. I just got out of college and I don't see myself in that. I want to travel and learn new cultures, meet new people, support myself financially and yes have a family someday but not anytime soon. I want to focus on myself

I take it you are a woman as well right?  dude hit me up cause its so damn hard finding girls with the same mentality as you, here. I know right. I honestly cant stand these girls whos dream is marrying their first long time boyfriend and have a “perfect”family. Its all bullshit cause divorce rates are higher than ever and I dont wanna be a 40 year old complaining about having to give up on my dream because I needed to cook for my husband,  good wife and look pretty next to him.. fuck that. Lifes a balance and not all want the same things.

Anonymous: Would you ever date someone with tattoos? Like a full sleeve? And also what's your type of guy. Physically and personality wise

yeah, I definitely would, I like the tattos and its such a long term commitment to get one but its a story on your skin, I think some are really beautifull and a work of art.

 My type of guy? oh man well, goal oriented and hard working, passionate, smart, kind, honest, loyal, a strong personality…please have an opinion..  I think there are SO many qualities and things I could go on and on about but its really simple, care for me and make me happy and I’ll  do the same for you, I just like genuine people. I just need to feel confortable around you cause Im not the kind of girl that likes to try too hard  in order to keep you around. I want the real thing, if Im going to put effort and time on someone I want it to be both ways round,.Its all or nothing with me.

Now phisically wise, Im really drown to guys with longuish dark hair and light eyes, thats like my kriptonite, mixed raced are also extremely beautiful in my eyes  but when it goes down to it, looks arent everything but they arent nothing either. On a side note I would love him to be taller than me cause Im 5’10 and also it would be a great plus if he had a nice style.

Anonymous: Do you see yourself getting married young?

I honestly don’t . I think Im too ambitious in all the things I want to accomplish in life plus Im still not sure on how I feel about marriage. I do want a big family someday but  Im not mature enough to handle that type of commitment with someone yet.

youlostthemoon: Ok you're seriously my all time favorite blog and you seem so chill! If you're ever in florida let me know :)

AHHH!!<3 of course girl! I was planning on going in these months but right now Im recovering and Im back to the gym just focusing in getting fit and happy.. but I’ll be there for sure in summer time so I’ll give you my digits to be in touch and hang out! much love 

Anonymous: I think you're still beautiful!

Aw thank you!! thats really nice of you to say!<3 yeah I guess its something I’ll have to get used to with time.

Anonymous: once you are healed can we see? and if you got surgery to fix your bite why did they have to operate on your nose?

Yeah off course.. in fact Ill post some progress pics in a while to show how its all healing up currently :). 
Well, the thing is they have to cut bone in my upper jaw, passing through the noce so it changes it and it even changes my cheekbones. The nose gets comepletely off and they stitch it together, the problem was that the stitches broke and it was off for around 2 months and a half. There’s actually a 25 secs vid on youtube youtube.com/watch?v=5Tz2LnFx8hI eventhough I got a genioplasty as well.