“Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.”—inkskinned, “My father’s recipe for the man I should marry” (via partygirlmeltdown)
I'm the 18 year old that was telling you about the 34 year old! Thing is that's what I want. From a very young age my passion has always been to marry young and have my own family, that's what I aspire to have. Right now he moved to a different city and he hasn't messaged me on facebook at all (I don't have other way of communication with him) how do I start "talking" to him?
Oh well, then just say Hi and ask him about how is he doing in his new location and such, keep it friendly and light, thing is now it will be more complicated since he moved away. But just give it a try and see, if he doesn’t responds after that then just call it quits and go for somebody else. thats great that you want to mary young and build a family how ever find someone worth building it with first. xx bests of luck